We hear it from leaders of all stripes, any time violence breaks out: “This is not who we are.” My first response when I hear this is generally cynicism: clearly, the fact that “this” has happened means that we have shown it to be exactly who we are. But then, as I think about it, I see the underlyingly aspirational nature of such statements. In other words, what they’re really saying is, “This is not who we want to be.”... Read more